Bedtime Prayers

"I will both lay me down in peace, and sleep: for thou, LORD, only makest me dwell in safety." — Psalm 4:8 (KJV)

A bedtime prayer is one of the small inheritances of Christian families. It survives because it works — a child who is prayed over before sleep learns, year after year, that the day belongs to God and the night belongs to Him too. The prayer does not need to be long. Now I lay me down to sleep is older than most of our families. The Book of Common Prayer's evening collect — Lighten our darkness, we beseech thee, O Lord — is older still. Any of them, said with affection, plants something.

The modern household has competition for the last minutes of the day. A phone is bright at bedside. A video plays. A child asks an AI assistant to tell them a story. None of these things is forbidden. None of them is bedtime prayer. The Christian household keeps the prayer not as a fence against the technology but as a higher claim on the moment — the day is closing; God hears us; we are His; we sleep.

A small practice: this week, pray a one-sentence prayer over each child before they sleep. Lay a hand on the head if it is welcome. Say their name. Bless them. Lord, keep this child this night. Amen. Five seconds. Repeated. For a decade. A whole soul takes shape under that small repeated kindness.

Lord, hold our households through the night. Bless our children in their sleep. Keep us until the morning. Through Jesus Christ our Lord. Amen.

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